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7/26/2008 JLL outlook1/19/2008 家常话最近老友（俺是她的亲人啊）来了柏林，07-08新年之际我去拜访她。
小叙了一周之后发现在我俩的谈话中出现频率最高的词汇是：低调+小牛儿。
低调大家都会理解，在这个各行各业都高调宣传的世界中，想做到低调还真不容易。
因为在我看来，只有优秀的人才配的上低调这个词。
大家不要误解，我并不是说很多爱说这个词的人都是在吹毛求疵，
其实这个词在我俩的谈话中更多的是“调侃”谁叫俺俩都是“北京人儿”呢。
因为只有想出位的人才会宣传自己，已经搏出位的人才可以有被宣传的价值，所以人家要低调。
那我们为啥也要凑热闹，要“低调”呢，因为我们不想“拼命乱追”也不想“乱七八糟的被追”。
至于小牛儿，牛乃牛气，小有所成便牛气冲天之意！另牛的本性踏实肯干孜孜不倦。
哼哼，意义深远吧估计再过几个月我都会不知道从何而来了，所以借这方圣土予以详记。
在短暂的几天中，我们就成功地塑造出：小白牛，小肥牛，小胖牛等可爱形象。
声明：这些绝对是出自老友之口，如有雷同，我方将予以追究法律责任。
幽默真的可以是多元化的，快的，慢的，漫不经心地，精雕细琢的，侃侃而谈的......
我很欣赏她的一张一弛，一颦一笑，那么的松弛可爱，反正我是做不到。
前几日我们还努力争取做牛，今天我俩就开始讨论为啥要做牛这个问题了。
没错，我们都不是有毅力之人，生活的围城，高耸的心理城墙，让我们尝试着扮演各种角色。
试罢，觉得不好玩开始理性的批判。
原因是：为什么大家现在都高调的想当牛呢？为的是：
扬名立万，光宗耀祖，显赫一时...呵呵，可能说得夸张点，您就当我在复习成语吧（真怕这几年丢了西瓜也没捡到芝麻）。
反正就是这个理儿，理解了就行了！
就是因为有了这批牛，弄得不想当牛的xdjm们，也得跟着上，比着扛，因为没人想在基层不是吗。
弄得全民考研，全民炒股，全民“跟着感觉走”，嘿嘿，真不错全国一片欣欣向荣。
所以我们不情愿地在心里抱怨一句“为啥要当牛啊，真是的”，就不能都安分守己的活着吗？
我看明白了，也想明白了，我不是当“牛”的材料，因为我不够出色，也没有毅力，
而且我只信我心中的一句家常话，它告诉了我成功的真谛，做人的快乐。
空虚...心慌...在我的印象中，好像上世纪90年代并不遥远；
对21世纪这个词儿也仍然充满着展望，
仿佛期待本世纪第一缕阳光的盛会依然在眼前世界仍在喧腾。
但是看看今天的日历已经是2008年了；
看看今天的新闻：“据专家预测2012年......, 2020年......”；
这些在90年代看来非常之难以企及的年份也似乎近在咫尺。
4年，长吗？不是很长。
短吗？不是很短。
曾经有多少个黑夜白昼在祈求，在呐喊“希望明天会更好”。
前天在祈盼昨天中度过，昨天在祈盼今天中度过，今天在祈盼什么？
更好的明天？明天真的会更好吗？ 8/4/2006 [转载]超准的测试！大家快来看看呦！看过务必留言梦想即刻实现
6/13/2006 I'd better live in my own!“两耳不闻窗外事，一心只读圣贤书“。这种境界在这艳阳高照的6月显得那么清静，闲适！ （渴望）
可我这样的现代都市人基本做不到了，铺天盖地的新闻 vs 人与人之间的关系，爱情，友情，亲情，事情，哈哈，这情字用出还挺广泛。所以我不适合做学问吧，做学问的人大多安静，根儿筋，较真儿，永远都是他们对，动不动就拿自己那点破知识教训别人。这不有位博士非说我的一句话有背他想写的第一本书的真谛。简直无聊 & 滑天下之大稽。孔孟都没说违背他们的话不能说，不正确，你算老几啊。还说能做到这样的人要么不是人，要么是圣人。自己做不到就说这样的话，显然没有水平。恰恰充分印证了我以下的观点：其实博士有啥了不起，顶多近似于井底之蛙——因为他们眼前的“风光“（课题）只有井口大小，在无其他，问及研究之外他们大多也就是基本常识水平，也许这我都多说了。所以我奉劝那些不知高低的妄自菲薄的博士谦虚点。别那么无聊找人不待见。
本来想在这里发发牢骚，可是算了。觉得写了也没啥意义，做人吗，轻松点最好，“记住该记住的，忘记该忘记的。改变能改变的，接受不能改变的”。这是我从网上看到的，可能最近狮子座的人都不太顺心，我就把这当作自己现阶段的座右铭好了（适用于所有狮子同道）。如果有些博士看了心烦，那我没有办法，实在不行您起诉我？或者找公检法给我抄牌？看着办...
大热天的，能少生气就少生气（气个好歹的自己受罪），能少联系人就少联系人（不是自己烦就是别人烦，搞不好惹火上身，弄得朋友做的尴尬），能少关心别人就少关心别人（这年头能把自己照顾好，让我爹妈安心足够了，多一句话浪费），能少干点啥就少干点啥（多干一点就有人说三道四，还不如坐下来看世界杯）。
我呀饿了吃点，困了睡会。与其有那功夫胡思乱想还不如多吃点西瓜，苹果，大鸭梨来的养颜美容，降火滋润！还是那句话：最好活在我自己的世界中。虽然有时候无聊（无聊我就看电视，看综艺，听歌曲，要这些戏子就是干这个的呗），至少活个平静、安逸、踏实啊，没法自己跟自己个折腾吧！各位您说是不是这个理儿？ 5/16/2006 report for my day!Record it:
Today is another ordinary day of mine. It started from 7 morning, waken by my internal clock, which is very precise recently. Then i packed up myself, very busy morning.
Anyway it's time for breakfast, biscuit, juice,bread, butter, jam, milk, cheese, wurst and my favourite Nutella...you see so many choices. 5/15/2006 Vermin-INTERNET!In the modern society, we cannot live without computers and internet especially for us oversea students.
I am used to spend my every minute online almost for chatting, searching, learning, reading etc. But if you ask me how much do you get from internet? I could say: not that much! Furthermore i start to hate it. It wastes me a lot of time, sounds ridiculous because there must be some voices to say "internet saves our time, make the big earth getting smaller as a village" . I cannot fight against the truth otherwise i would not view it as the most important part of my life. In my opinion NB(notebook) is a tool using for holding me and "my lover-internet" together, I hope my figuration is properly. So it drave me mad when my NB was off, because it has acted as loyal friend of mine whatever i am busy with assignments, reports, thesis or senseless news.
Nevertheless changing my mind, in fact some senseless news i don't need to know, some chattings are insignificance, some promiscuous thinkings are resulting from pluralistic information, making people cleverer and more competitive. I really don't like that! I should keep distance from NB rback to my mjor, i gonna lose my direction when i sit in front of my NB with internet surfing, web-by-web, page-by-page, an endless dell. Thus time is flashing past me!!!!!
It's good for my dear mom, not for me, because she is already retired, hehe!!!!
So i've decided to be away from my IKEA table, decreased my sitting time on the bad chair. It could be more healthier for me. Ok, stop right here, i should stand up to keep my word from now on! 5/14/2006 March on today!Today is the Mother's day. I've sent 2 cards to Beijing, but probably they are on their way! Anyway they stand for my best regards. I hope you like sincerely!
This is the 1st mother's day i spend in Dresden, as well it is rememberable.
Because i watched a march in front of my apartment. Maybe hundreds of people chase those trucks with jazz bands on. The crowded were singing, dancing, smiling, following the troop. Due to different background, our group don't think interesting so as to enjoyable. However, i still took several photos for memorizing, to record an ordinary day of mine. I believe that not everybody spend their everyday as splendid as fancy. Life is not like a fairy tale but full with realism. So i just used my unfashionable camera keeping back the moment in Dresden on this particular day.
The another reason is i had a dinner together with F4 (4 handsome guys). They are really nice to me as their little sister. All the way we are talking and talking, laughing and laughing, i felt the period is the happiest time among the whole week. I should say "THANK YOU A LOT" from my heart whatever you gonna read my blog or not. For the very nice Turkey dinner togeter, of course i should praise Mr. Bai specially, because he paid for all, how generous. Then on the return journey, too much fun was made by my two idols. Definitely the funny story started with quib each other, the way we like, the way is our Chinese way----I thought. Moreover, we have a focus- Kun ge as a judger, who is real brother to look after all of us, just because of him we have more parties more fun. At about 9:30 we reached our building Marschnerstr. our lovely, brilliant place. The day is finishing, expecting a beautiful tomorrow, hoping every badness sweeping off, welcoming a colorful future coming to me.
This is my realistic life, sometimes boring, sometimes happy, sometimes aspiring, sometimes depressive, difficult to control, just like a ship is undulant in the ocean, my life is being in-and-out. Eventually i only can say------ Let It Be! 5/11/2006 Tell myself!!!What should i do except boring,complaint under my circumstances? This evening i felt so boring, lonely which i never feel in Dresden, maybe i did but forget at this moment!
Perhaps too much dreams in my mind, but they haven't come true yet!
Maybe too much things i wanna do, but i haven't started till now.
just like i wanna go for a walk, i am attracted by the beautiful scene in front of my window. But i failed. Because too much things take up my time, then sunrise goes to western being afterglow. However you'll hear clock "tick tick" to go round and round smoothly never be exhausted! Maybe i am too emotional, maybe...
As well I wanna go for shopping on this Sat., i didn't because of crowded.
I wanna go outside enjoy the Spring atmosphere, i didn't because of overcast sky.
I wanna travel with sb. but the one is not around me.
Most of my considerations are preterite, what i should do is "taking action actively" !
Please my God father give me some energetic motivation to read, write, think, and do exercises to enjoy my time. Actually i've ever considered to do, but when i saw the time is flashing past me i feel so terrified! Look outside, leaves are getting bigger and bigger, suddenly or over a night they've become dark green. I am thinking life is the same, up and down, yellow and green. Everything is interfered by this scared, mortifying, perplexed & ailing frame of mind. Shouting out to myself: CHANGING, STIMULATION PLEASE!
I think to be a girl should like dressily and pretty, which encourages me a lot. Given an excuse to do sth. Ok,stop talking right here, i should start from my feet.
5/7/2006 The Porcelain Museum-MeissenThe History of Meissen Porcelain
The Meissen Porcelain Manufactory was founded as the 1st of its kind in Europe at Albrechsburg Castle, Meissen, in 1710. Both in sculptural design and in decorative painting, Meissen set the standard for all manufactories that followed in the field of fine ceramics(细陶瓷), thus influencing the development of European porcelain.
From the beginning, Meisssen Porcelain was produced not just for the court of the Elector-King, but also for the market. The first products of fine stoneware, called"Boettgersteinzeug" , were offered for sale at the Leipzig Fair at Easter 1710, and the first white porcelain, known as "Boettgerporzellan"
In addition to such merchandise(商品，货物),Augustus the Strong and his descendants(后裔) had Meissen Porcelain produced to suit their own taste and ideas. The porcelain commissioned by Augustus to furnish the Japanese Palace in Dresden was an important drive for the manufactory's early production, for his requirements were truly regal in their scope.
The proposed porcelain palace was intended to astound(使惊骇，大吃一惊) all Europe and to eclipse(衰落) all the existing porcelain collections. The fascinating thing about Meissen porcelain-making is that the shapes and decorations(装饰) of former periods are still being produced. Continued traditions and present-day creations are equally important. This lively coexistence(共存) is the product of the day-to-day work of the "Porzelliner" the manufactory's staff.
The Porcelain Museum
The Porcelain Museum introduces visitors from all over the globe to the whole world of Meissen Porcelain as one of the oldest and most best-known brands. In 2005, the existing porcelain museum was enlarged. The historic, symmetrical building was joined with a modern, asymmetrical one. Through a spacious foyer(休息室，大厅) visitors come into the Schauhale, the demonstration workshops, the Meissen shop and an area for special exhibitions, as well as the cafe and restaurant Meissen. The foyer accommodates all te service area such as the checkroom, cash desks, infopoint and WCs.
The Schauhalle
The Schauhalle (since 1916) is the public section of the manufactory's extensive Meissen collection, comprising over 20,000 pieces. Around 3,000 exhibits per year are selected from this vast stock and displayed in the Schauhalle.
Consequently, the exhibition changes in part every year. Return as often as you may, you will find sth. new or unknown, as pieces seldom or never shown before are presented to the fascinated visitors.
Arranged in lines according to model numbers, manufacturing periods and themes in the manufactory's depot(库房，仓库), the porcelain items emanate their unparalleled aesthetic appeal as soon as they are displayed in the magnificent rooms of the Schauhalle. The pieces shown here represent important aspects of Meissen porcelain-making over 300 years. Although a selection has to be made, the major trends in Meissen porcelain production , both in shape and decoration, will always be considered , and visitors gain well-funded insight into the varied history of moulding and decorating from 1710 to the present day.
The multiplicity(多样性) of forms among the porcelain objects on display is vast, ranging from thimbles(顶针，心环) to miniature figurines（缩小的小雕像）and tableware(餐具) sets, from Kaendler's large statues and vases several metres tall to the 3.5-m-tall centrepiece from 1749 made for the court table of King Augustus III.
The exhibition in the Schauhalle is arranged according to chronology(年表), enabling visitors to associate the porcelan pieces with the successive styles in art and handicrafts since the 18th century. Apart from numerous pieces from the past, the exhibition is continually updated with interesting new creations.
The Schauhalle was built between 1912 and 1915 and opened in January 1916. On the first floor, visitors walk into a neoclassical(新古典主义的) banqueting hall(宴会厅) from which an imperial staircas(宫廷式的楼梯) leads up to the second floor. In this hall, a large festive table is laid for twelve people, with the tableware changing each year. Upstairs you find an impressive domed room with a ceiling painting made by Prof. Achtenhagen in 1915.
This light-flooded part of the room contains an imposing(壮丽的，令人难忘的) centrepiece(中心装饰品) from 1749. In its ingenious(有独创性的) layout, the Schauhalle provides a unique surrounding for the presentation of porcelain objects from four centuries.
Moreover, the magnificent atmosphere of the hall forms the festive setting for regular concerts and special events. The new area for special exhibitions is used for presentations on special themes and occasions.
This allows selected porcelain objects to be displayed together with other materials or in their historical contexts.
The Demonstration Workshops
Each of our two demonstration(示范) workshops presents four areas of work. In the first room a film informs visitors about the history of the manufactory, the raw materials used and the production of Meissen Porcelain. In the following rooms they can observe the work processes that give each piece its specific character. At the thrower's workplace visitors see how a cup with a relief (浮雕) pattern is shaped on the potter's(制陶工人) wheel and how a detail of a figurine is moulded. This is followed by a demonstration of the repairer joining the pieces together. On the repairer's workbench there stands a model for reference. Underglaze painting is shown through the example of the "onion pattern".
Each step is illustrated by examples. The tour ends at the workplace of the overglaze painter demonstrating"flower painting" or "Indian painting".
Explanations of all the processes are given either by a sound system or by a guide. Tours are available in German and 13 other languages. Enjoying the Porcelain Museum, visitors become acquainted with the special features and unique quality of Meissen Porcelain. Attentive beholders will soon find out what makes this porcelain very special: plasticity even of the smallest details in figurines, the manufactory's own brilliant porcelain colours, and the perfect treatment of countless decorations by the painters. And last but not least: each piece is made by hand! On request we will provide visitors who wish to try their own hand at porcelain painting with information about our Meissen Porcelain Painting and Creativity Seminarts. These seminars, which are supervised by experienced instructors from the Porcelain Manufactory, are open to beginners as well as advanced hobby painters.
How to get there:
Arriving by local train(S-Bahn)from Dresden in Meissen-Triebischtal, follow the signs to the manufactory.
Buses from Meissen main station or from the town centre towards Meissen-Triebischtal. Bus stop right at the manufactory. 4/16/2006 Königsstein Fortress
Festung KÖnigsstein – Königsstein Fortress
Getting There:
The KÖnigsstein Fortress is situated about 30KM from the Saxon state capital Dresden and to arrive by almost all means of transportation. A trip on the river Elbe in one of the historic paddle-steamers of “Saechsische Dampfschifffahrt” is also highly recommended.
Urban railway: S-Bahn line 241.1 Dresden- KÖnigsstein-Schoena “Fortress Express” courtesy train: from the town of KÖnigsstein and the car-park
Circular tour: Amidst the extraordinary rock formations of Saxon Switzerland the Festung Koenigstein stands towering 361m above sea- level on a table mountain, easily visible from afar(遥远的). The imposing(使人难忘的，壮丽的) mountain fortress(要塞，堡垒) is not only a magnet（磁铁） for people interested in military history, but also for nature-lovers, who have a fantastic view of the picturesque Elbsandsteingebirge (Elbe Sandstone Mountains) and the foothills of the Osterzgebirge (East Ore Mountains) from the mile-and-a-half long fortified walls. The 9.5 hectares of the fortress are full of surprises for all ages. You should allow at least two hours for your visit to the fortress. If you go on a guided tour, you will also get to see the deep, 400-year-old cellars and underground casemates. The word casemate comes from the Italian ‘casa matta’, meaning covered house, and refers to bomb-proof rooms in fortifications (防御工事，要塞，筑城术).
History: Festung KÖnigstein (KÖnigstein Fortress) is a unique monument to the art of European fortress construction. Its 750 years’ history had made it an impressive configuration of late Gothic, Renaissance, Baroque and 19th century architecture.
The medieval castle (中世纪的城堡) 1241 the first mention of the Koenigstein in a document - King Wenceslas I of Bohemia affixes his seal to the Upper Lausitz Border Decree “in lapide regis” (“on the stone of the King”, Koenigstein is the German for King’s stone) - a medieval castle exists on the rocky plateau; it is the property of the Bohemian kingdom 1406/1408 the castle falls into the hands of the Wettin noble family in a feud (the Wettins are the rulers of Saxony) 1459 the Eger contract gives a legal basis for this state of affairs.
The monastery(修道院) 1516 Twelve Coelestin monks (修道士) and one prior occupy the ‘Monastery for the Praise of Mary’s Miracles’ established by Duke George the Bearded on KÖnigsstein; dissolved in 1524. 1563-69 by order the elector August, the deepest well in Saxony is sunk (152.5m) under supervision of the master miner Martin Planer from Freiberg; the independent water source is an important condition for the fortress construction.
The conversion to a fortress (转化成堡垒) 1589 the Elector Christian I orders the conversion of the castle to a country fortress - the gate house, the raking defenses, the old barracks, Christian’s (later: Frederick’s) Castle and the old armoury are built by 1594 - from that time on, the fortress defenses have continually been modernized to keep up with the times; no enemy has ever attempted to attack the fortress - due to its impregnable(无法攻取的) nature, Saxon’s rulers（统治者）often fled behind its thick walls in troubled times, taking their works of art and the state treasure with them - its enchanting(迷人的，迷惑的，妩媚的) countryside location made it a favourite destination for excursions by members of the Saxon court (宫廷) and the setting for many a feast (盛宴）or banquet (宴会).
The state prison(国家监狱) 1591 the first state prisoner is brought to the KÖnigstein in this year, Chancellor Dr. Nikolaus Krell - further famous prisoners include: 1706-07 Johann Friedrich BÖttger, the inventor of European porcelain, 1849 the Russian revolutionary Mikhail Bakunin, and 1847 the social democrat (社会民主党党员)August Bebel. - it is the most feared prison of the state of Saxony until 1922.
The era of August the strong 1698 first visit from Tsar(沙皇) Peter I 1712 second visit of the Russian tsar 1725 KÖnigstein’s largest wine cask (桶，木桶) was made by order of Saxony’s ruler August the Strong; it held 238,000litres and stood in the Magdalenenburg (Magdalene’s Castle) cellar(地窖，地下室，酒窖) until 1818. - with this feat(技艺), he defeated (击败) the Palatinate elector in the bet to see who could build the biggest win cask (his competitor’s effort can still be seen in Heidelb.) 1728 the visit of the “Soldier King” Frederick William I of Prussia and his son, Crown Prince Frederick (later King Frederick II) 1756 capture of the Saxon army on the plain (平原) at Lilienstein at the start of the Seven Year War (1756-63) - the Elector and his court retreated to the safety of KÖnigstein; the fortress is declared neutral.
Napoleon(拿破仑) 1806 Saxony becomes a kingdom, standing in the favour of (为…而征战) Napoleon, and KÖnigstein Fortress becomes a Fortress of the confederation of the Rhine. 1813 Napoleon inspects KÖnigstein Fortress 1815 Saxony loses a large proportion of its territory (领土，版图，地域) in the Vienna Congress; KÖnigstein is Saxony’s only remaining country fortress.
The 19th and 20th centuries 1848 the only time the fortress was ‘stormed’, by the chimney-sweep (清扫烟囱的工人) Sebastian Abratzky 1849 the May uprising (五月起义) in Dresden sees the KÖnigstein serve once more as a refuge (庇护，避难，避难所) for the Saxon royal family - after the suppression (镇压) of the uprising, the revolutionaries are taken here as prisoners. 1866 after the Prussian-Austrian War in which Saxony was on the losing side, a Prussian commandant (司令官) and Prussian soldiers occupy KÖnigstein Fortress 1870/71 during the German-French War the fortress is first used as a prisoner of war camp. 1871 after the German Reich (帝国), or empire, is established, KÖnigstein is the only Saxon element in the Germany-wide system of fortresses and is given a Saxon garrison(卫戍部队，驻军) once again. 1913 the post of commandant is struck from (strike from 从…中划掉) the military budget and KÖnigstein no longer plays the role of a true fortress 1914-18 camp for captured Russian and French officers and soldiers 1921 converted into a spa hospital for recovering soldiers 1939-45 prisoner of war camp, initially for Polish prisoners, later for French officers and generals 1942 the French general Henri Giraud succeeds in (在…方面成功) fleeing from the officers’ camp 1945 the garrison (驻军) surrendered (交出，投降，放弃)without a fight to the Red Army, who set up a hospital in KÖnigstein Fortress 1949-55 the fortress was used as a youth reform camp; young people who were politically suspect (嫌疑犯) or had, in the post-war confusion, committed (效忠的，忠于…的)criminal acts, were educated and trained here.
The museum 1955 the 9.5 hectare fortress complex is opened to the public as a militart and historical open air museum 1991 the Festung KÖnigstein (KÖnigstein Fortress ) became the property of the Free State of Saxony and has, since 2000, been managed as a limited company 2000 the fortress became a private limited operating company and, since 2003, a gGmbH
4/15/2006 回来后的第一个周六，晴空万里！今天是复活节后的第一个周六，也是我回来过的第一个周六，连着放假4天半真爽，好像老天爷都不让我挨累。那天上课我真得快挨不住了，绝对一个坐立不安，摩拳擦掌，我不知道大家有没有浑身较劲的时候，那叫一个难受，是不是戒毒的时候就是这种感觉，不清楚，哈哈！盼着时间一分一秒的过啊，过啊！怎么就过不去呢，愁啊，愁啊，终于看看表差不多了。好了终于熬过了一天下课时间晚上8：15。
第二天又是哪个出了名能说的老师一般一讲就是大半天。早上9点到中午12点。讲的是啥我基本也不晓得，惭愧！终于熬到了下课，这是我最开心的时候，因为接下来就是假期喽！
照片是我回来之后第一个小炒，还蛮好吃的呢！呵呵 2/23/2006 邪气， 滚滚滚！今天不知道撞什么邪了，到了夜里23：51让我越来越不高兴。好在我不是23号飞回北京，不然飞挂了不行，23好可不是一个好日子，不过这么说好像不太公平，因为事情是发生在22好夜里的。那就把罪过归功于22号好了。希望23号一切顺利。累了不说了，就到这里，休息，休息一会！ 2/19/2006 天兰的很漂亮刚睡醒一个小觉觉得很舒服呢！再看看外面兰兰的天空很舒服。
没有任何的风吹草动，没有太多的嘈杂，对对对，想到就要做到，好我去换衣服跑步去了！
让自己累累的，再洗个热水澡，惬意至极！说做就做，see ya! 2/18/2006 《恶作剧之吻》果然越看越好看听着台湾口音那轻巧的节奏，看着帅气，聪明的江直树vs执著，乐观的袁湘琴，原本对剧情的评价——无聊，白痴全然不见。居然被他们的爱情深深吸引。现在觉得林依晨很漂亮，很可爱。难怪她有那么多fans. 2/16/2006 转帖——一个真正爱你的男人的是这样表现的１．真正爱你的男人，一下子说不出真正爱你的理由，只知道自己顾不上注意别人。
２．真正爱你的男人，其实总惹你生气，你却发觉不了他到底做错了什么。 ３．真正爱你的男人，很少当面赞美你，可是心里肯定你是他最棒的。
４．真正爱你的男人，会在你忘记回复他短信时狠狠地说你一顿。 ５．真正爱你的男人，只可能在你一个人的面前流眼泪，当你触摸到他时，也触摸到了那颗只为你跳动的心。 ６．真正爱你的男人，会默默地记住你不经意说过的话，在某时某刻重复它们 ７．真正爱你的男人，不会轻易做出承诺，因为他想让自己成为你心中说话最算话的男子汉，只想给你最可*最安全的幸福。
８．真正爱你的男人，总告诉你不要胡思乱想，因为其实他在为你们谋划着最美丽真实的未来。同时让你无忧无虑地等待他要给你的惊喜。 ９．真正爱你的男人，可能不像你一样清楚地记得某些纪念日，他觉得爱你是每时每刻的，并不是*这几天简单的日子。 １０．真正爱你的男人，不会轻易对你当面说“我爱你”，因为他为你做过的每件事都已经这么说了。除非在非常时刻，为了不让你无端地误解他。 １１．真正爱你的男人，总觉得有些话只说一遍就够了，因为你已经了解他的心。说得多了，他会觉得不珍贵。 １２．真正爱你的男人，如果他去机场接你，不会像你期望的那样捧着玫瑰大声叫“亲爱的”，只是自然地提过你的行李，然后想用眼睛抱紧你似的心疼地说，怎么瘦得像豆芽菜了？ １３．真正爱你的男人，当你发脾气时，只会不做声地听你把火发完，然后慢慢地说，你明天有课吗？早点睡吧。 １４．真正爱你的男人，不懂当你生气挂掉电话后应该立即打来，过了若干小时后会发条短信问你消气了没有？如果你质问他为何这么久才打来，他会理直气壮的说，你生气时我的解释一定没有用，等你的火消了，我的解释才有效果。 １５．真正爱你的男人，总是叫你小姑娘，可是每次他做什么重大的决定，却总想先听听你的建议。 １６．真正爱你的男人，不喜欢玩具小毛熊，却一直把你送他的小熊放在床头。 １７．真正爱你的男人，当和你发生争执时，总是控制不了地先妥协，先承认“我错了”，过后发来短信以“神经病”开头，以“宝贝”结尾。事实上你也清楚，这次是你有点无理取闹。 １８．真正爱你的男人，很想很想你时，也会买玫瑰送你，傻傻地等着你，却不知道自己捧的是月季。没关系，他的心里送的是玫瑰。 １９．真正爱你的男人，嘴巴都不甜，但是他的吻能传递他所有的热情。 ２０．真正爱你的男人，当听到你对他讲很“酸”的话时，他反而会装得很正经，其实心里很甜很甜。 ２１．真正爱你的男人，如果不能经常见到你，他会让自己忙碌起来，为了不去想你，因为他知道一想你将会一发不可收拾 每个人都希望能有个特别爱自己的人，在这里祝愿你们每个人都能找到自己的另一半，别忘回帖哦。。。要不爱你的人就会离你而去了。。。 2/13/2006 心跳加速——截稿现在是06年情人节前一日10：50分，看书看不进去，反而想来这里逛逛写点东西。
学习的压力，考试的来临，生活的追求，让我现在心跳加速，甚至可以感觉到我凌乱的心脏波动。我深知这是一种亚健康状态，很想通过自己的努力摆平它！
真得不是我不能写出合乎逻辑，条例清楚地文章，能让读者看了之后明白我在写啥，我想表达啥中心思想——那就是从小到大我们在语文课本上要找的“脉络” 。可是就是因为我不能平静的心绪造成了这种后果。仔细想想，想着回家逍遥，想逛街，想买东西，想看片子，想聊天，想上网，可是还想着要考试，这种矛盾交织在一起岂能不乱套？感觉在睡觉的时候我的肌肉都不能放松。
来了来了，继续我未完成的工作。关于“为”的问题还真不能怪我，主要我对微软拼音太相信了。不管3*7=21就敲上去了，效率第一嘛！不过多谢你的点评喽！
上回讲道头疼的备战岁月，好了总算有熬过一关而且是这个学期课程最多的Building Material这是我第一次参加这么长时间的学期考试居然考了3个小时，写到最后就是一个感觉：报告阿sir, 能不能行个方便？hoho可是看看眼前的大题没有时间啊， 坚持，坚持就是胜利。时间一分一秒的过去12：10的胜利时刻我终于等到了，ok,交卷！简单说说吧，这3个小时里出现在头脑中的就是各种deterioration caused by carbonation, chloride, shrinkage, creeping, freezing, sulfate, ASR &Ettringite. 说实话要不是看在考试的份上，我真得不知道众生云云的是啥，哈哈（羞愧的笑）。因为我现在上课的状态就是——困，怎么就那么困！
考完试轻松了不少，其实我是考前的4-5个小时才能认真地看看，考后的14-15个小时特别轻松，（因为后面还有2科考试阿）。不过想想做完了这一切我就可以回家了，踏上1.5年未曾见过得国土，看看我亲爱的爸爸妈妈，和我那些亲爱的兄弟姐们们唠唠，这是何等的幸福快乐。正应了那句老话：金窝银窝不如自己的草窝。
赶着去听师姐的presentation，see ya 了我的各位好朋友！
回来了，继续唠叨。有的东西没有想有，可有了呢？不如没有。同样的话我和我同班的好兄弟都曾说过，可见我们的默契。不过不论如何，我觉得思想简单，没有那么多弯弯肠子的人总会少很多莫名的气愤&悲伤——我恰恰就想做这样的人。
说到哪里了？自己都不知道，难怪很多作家在有心绪的时候总是不眠不休的写作，怕的就是不能一气呵成。对于不是作家的我有没有冒烟，酗酒的习惯，再加上考试的苦楚请原谅我的速度还有文笔的拙劣。：）
考完试的那天余下的时间总是很自由，看看片子，逛逛街，好不惬意。考试前的最后一点时间总是很忙碌，幸运的时候还能想起来什么还不会，不幸运的时候就是满脑子一锅粥，迷乱混沌。好在还有2科考试就结束了这个学期。对于这个学期的总结就是：“快”！时间以分秒计算怎么还是转瞬即逝,从9月27日算起来到了dd也有些时日了。开心的，焦急的，期盼的，忙碌的度过了这几个月。问我最开心的事情是什么？当然莫过于认识这么多的好朋友，还有很多生命中的第一次，说到这里，本“觉主”还曾经私下写了篇文章题为《我生命中的第一次》，不过至今还未发表，请耐心等待。哈哈！
明天又要考试了“Project Management”，其实无非就是让我们forward & backward calculation those periods. 可是就是这样还是不眠心中焦虑紧张。可能得了考试综合症了吧？怎么说呢，过一个算一个，看在放假的份上我原谅考试，再说我还要回家呢，多么令人期待，令我振奋的决定啊！
哈哈，伴随着我的紧张，怯喜我打算把这篇冗长无头无脑的文章收笔！也许读者您还是看不大懂，还是找不到我头脑中的key，没有关系，因为这才是我的风格，我的blog. 哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈！ 2/12/2006 没经验的说，以警世人，哈哈1、请记得，若是男人对不起你，请坚决与他分手。你还得记住，千万不要发脾气，要温柔地分手。若发脾气，你们分手的理由会定位于性格不合，若温柔地分手，你们不过是无缘，不过是世间遗憾。亲爱的，多给男人一点遗憾。对于遗憾，一直都是男人心中一道凄美的风景线。男人们大多不懂珍惜，信奉得不到的才是最美的，失去的总有诗意。让他失去你，比你失去他要在心理上占优势。 自:Club.ChinaRen.com  自:Club.ChinaRen.com 2、不要试图去征服一个30岁以上、从未结过婚、至今也没有固定女友的男人。这种男人不是性无能就是爱无能，而且多数有性取向方面的心理暗疾。亲爱的，别做一个受伤的女性。 自:Club.ChinaRen.com 自:Club.ChinaRen.com 3、看一个男人爱不爱你的最好方面，是看他是否把你带入他的世界、他的生活当中。  自:Club.ChinaRen.com 4、收服男人就得对他好，俗话说，柔能克刚。但不要时时、事事都好，只要在他生病时照顾他就行了。记住，千万不能太惯男人了，不要让他习以为常，以为这是你该做的、喜欢做的。  自:Club.ChinaRen.com 5、这世间有个词叫神话，想知道什么是神话？请听男人向你表达爱意！这世间还有个词叫传说，想知道什么是传说？请听男人对你的承诺！这世间的女人都有梦境，而梦境，就是女人接触到神话和传说时的反应。
6、作为女人其实应该相信男人。就像愿意相信世界和平会到来，虽然你也知道，现在世界战争不断。
9、千万不要翻看男人的手机短信，不要查岗不要跟踪追击，不要让男人觉得你十分在乎他，要让他在乎你关注你才对。
12、亲爱的女士们，男人这种动物，很容易让我们看走眼。开始时，你以为他是白马王子，最后才发现是白眼蛤蟆。但这世上也有优秀的男人，他温柔、善良、体贴、富有情趣，极有责任感，最好还能有些家产，但最最重要的是他爱你。这时候，记得一定要抓紧一切机会，想方设法嫁给你爱的这个他！女士们努力吧！十个男人七个傻，八个呆，九个坏，剩下的这个可是人人爱呀！ 我是懒人——需要触动为啥。。。为啥。。。我就不能自觉主动的学习呢？总是等到考试的时候看到身边的朋友1，2分得考成绩心理暗自悔恨。可是平时不努力就算了吧，临时抱佛脚的宝贵时间都不惜聊天，看片子打发是之。真是对自己没得说，简直就是一个懒人，嗬嗬，在这里检讨一下，我就要开始复习了。
大哥说得对，我的文章真是没有主题，没有内容，我自己不是也写明白了，呵呵，我就是这种人，明明知道的dull，可是还是很难去改正，最后你的评论很对，看来还是智商没有跟上。哈哈。
不在这里乱贫了，我去开发智商喽！
2/11/2006 say sth. with《恶作剧之吻》本来应该学习看材料的我，打开了emule谢天谢地下载完了3集《恶作剧之吻》，这种缺心眼的电视剧我以前肯定不会看，但是本着不能半途而废的心情我还是不急不弃得下载着。真的这种片子只能作为消化时间的消遣。没有任何的意义可言，什么都不能获得，甚至都不能让我微笑。是不是只有我这种无所事事麻木无聊的人才会看？哈哈。不过就是觉得片中的郑元畅挺帅的，女主角吗真是平常的可以。绝对一个小学生模样。不知道导演为啥会选中学韩语的她。
啰嗦了半天我想表达什么呢？嗬嗬，我也不知道，可能使自己有了这个空间想第一时间充分利用一下吧。每天就是这么一如既往的坐着，不能浪费我的作为，利用时间来当一把作者吧，这个就是我的初衷。今天还不错看了好几个片子。《我猜...》《康咏当家》《恶作剧之吻》
If you ask what i smile at, that must be you.
If you ask what i love with, that must be you & time.
If you ask what i treasure most, that must be 3.
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